Dear Mimi,
I need a serious make over (lol, as I’ve posted on your blog) – Where do I start? I know what I want – I know I need to change. But seriously, where does one start?

Hi Kita,

Thanks for asking! Girl, do I know the feeling of needing a make-over! I have been in your shoes and it’s important to periodically “reevaluate” (so to speak) yourself. I went through this a few years ago and started by losing some weight, revamping my make-up routine, getting a new hairstyle, and working on my mindset. Just a few tweeks….hehe.

My advice for next steps? Here we go!

1. Brainstorm – Sit down with a pen and paper and figure out what you want to change. Just let all your thoughts flow. There are no wrong feelings.

2. Make a List – Once you’ve figured out what exactly you want to make-over, make a list of what is most important to you. For example, if you need a new hairdo, make that your priority.

3. Research – If you could make yourself over, what would YOU look like? I always look for inspiration. I look on blogs, magazines, websites, etc. find your muse!

4. Execute – Now that you know what you want and how you want it go out there and do it! Find someone that can hook you up or if you’re a do it yourself girl, go for it! You are irresistible!

Outside appearances are important. They really are. They are the world’s first impression of you. Don’t forget that sometimes no matter how much we fix the outside; it may not make us feel any different. When taking “make-over inventory”, figure out if everything is ok on the inside. If not, follow the same process and go forward.

You are capable of becoming Irresistible. Do your thang girl! Remember:

“Sometimes it’s the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.”

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