Stop waiting for a magic cure. There isn’t one. Stop waiting around for some imaginary prince on a white horse to save you. Save yourself.

As everyone is talking about love and Valentine’s Day, just remember that you deserve to show yourself some love too. You don’t need to wait around for someone else to do these things for you. You gotta make yourself a priority.

5 Ways to Love Yourself This Valentine’s Day

In this post, I’m going to share with you five ways to love yourself this Valentine’s Day.

1. Stop Talking Shit

How many times do you talk shit to yourself in any given day? How many times a day do you say disgusting things about your body? It’s time to stop! You wouldn’t talk that way to someone that you love. Right? I sure hope not!

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2. Look the World in the Eyes

It’s time to stop walking down the street with your face planted in the cement. You aren’t going to magically become confident just because you decide you want to be. You have to take actions every single day.  Start with how you show up in the world. Put your shoulders back, stand up straight, and look the world in the eyes. Before you know it, you’ll be exuding confidence and everyone will want to know your secret.

3. Take Yourself on a Date!

Take yourself on a date. I love spending time alone with myself.  It helps me recharge my batteries which makes me a better human, wife, and mama. A perfect day for me starts with a spa pedicure at the nail shop with a milkshake. I use this time to catch up on social media and all the books piled up on my Kindle. After that, I’ll head to my favorite sushi restaurant for lunch followed by some retail therapy to end the day. Don’t wait around for someone else to do these things for you. Do you boo!!!!!

4. Treat Yo Self!

I try to eat healthy most of the time so that I can indulge on occasion and enjoy life. I mentioned that I get a milkshake before my pedicures. It’s a special treat that I look forward to. Once I finally gave up that all or nothing thinking about food, I was actually able to lose weight and find happiness-and balance!

5. Get Your Glam On

Nothing makes me feel more pretty and confident than getting my glam on! A fun way to love yourself on Valentine’s Day is with a makeover. You can do this at any major makeup counter like MAC, UlTA, or even Sephora. Try out a new look. You don’t even need a reason or a special event. Just do it because you can!

6. Give Yourself a Gift This Valentine’s Day

Buy something just for you. Is there a pair of shoes you’ve had your eye on? Buy them. Want flowers? Buy them! Some jewelry? Get you some! Another way to show yourself some love is with a personal development gift. My brand new online course, Irresistible YOU makes a great gift! To show you all the love, I’m offering it to you for 50% off! I’m also throwing in a VIP bonus coaching call just because I love you! You must enter coupon code LAUNCH at checkout to get the discount.

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Be your own Valentine this year and show yourself the gift of self love!


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